If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.

You mean, sites were real women/men wants to have sex with you and not yust people who get payed to send you a message but never meeting you in real. I would also be curious if such sites exists were people doesn't get fooled ...

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the 'good attitude' and 'time and effort.' All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.

Yes! ALL sex dating sites are scams, usually run from America. Do not waste your money.
If you want to meet a partner stay away from any site that offers members wanting just sex. THEY ARE ALL SCAMS!

I think a lot of the fake adult sites are coming from parts of Europe and Asia. Russia and the Ukraine are high on those lists.
Do not trust them!

Guys/Girls if its too good to be true ITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, no woman/guy with half a brain would fall for that, I guess I have less than half a brain since I decided to spend the full 2.99 for a 3 day membership at Benaughty.com , I quickly realized the answers were computer generated responses to my questions LOL - I should know better!!!!
to make matters worse try cancelling the repeat charges in the small print!!!! I was careful enough to follow all the cancellation steps very closely and in the end I only spent 2.99 Lesson learned!!!!

I am 55 and fed up with these so called sites where you can always meet a woman.
That 's until you disclose you are 55 that 's when you discover that all the older women want young guys and young girls don 't do it with older guys.
Yet on the front cover everyone does it and there 's no bar.
All I want is to meet a married woman who is betwen 35 & 60 looking fior some funis that to much to ask.

Well I fell for it to and it's kinda embarrassing. I just wanted to meet someone for casual sex.

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com Single men are in the LESS THAN 1% of meeting anyone for sex on that website. Your best chance is to find a girlfriend on one of the sites like eHarmony.com where EVERY WOMAN i met in person ended up making love to me. And I am being 100% HONEST.....EVERY WOMAN who met me in person after going through the eHarmony process made love to me and then some!! I had sex with OVER 50-women 3-4 times a week for 2-8 months AVERAGE relationship time in 15 years just by going on there and paying the $49.95 I think it is for 3-4 months membership. That's A LOT OF SEX guys!! 8-month relationships and each we had sex 3-4 times per week if not more. They give it up MORE than a website where you just ask for it in your profile. WOMEN??? on AFF??? *censored*! they get it WHENEVER and with WHOMEVER they want on AFF.

Great, so what you're saying is.. you were payed to post that. Thanks for the eHarmony plug.